Tips to get the most out of your sessions.
Please do not arrive early for your appointments! I have explained this time and time again, it throws me off when you show up early and I'm not ready. Do you really want me to go through the session with only half of my make-up on? What am I supposed to do when you show up early and I'm not ready? I can't leave you alone while I go and finish getting ready because of snooping problems I have had in the past. I know you are eager to see me but please have the courtesy to look at your watch before you buzz my door. To remedy this situation, if you are early and you try buzzing me, I will not be answering the buzzer until our scheduled appointment time.
Let us know what you want. We are not mind readers. If you want to start off with a bj, then let me know. If you want to start off nice and slow with some kissing, hugging and stroking, let me know. If you want to immediately take the clothes off and get busy, let me know. The length of time you have booked for your session usually gives me a rough idea of how quickly to proceed from chatting when you first get in the door, to kissing and stroking to daty to bbbj, etc. but sometimes you have different ideas and when you do, you need to let me know. If you are a new or repeat client usually makes a difference as well. Sessions with new clients usually start out a little slower with a little more chit-chat at the beginning so you become comfortable with me and being here before I lead you into the bedroom to ravish you! lol ;)
If you are on medication that affects your...performance capabilities...then please let me know. If you go limp as soon as you put a condom on or go limp at even the thought of putting a condom on, please let me know. There are a few different things we can try. A condom will always be a must for sex so don't get me wrong there but there are other tricks we can try to get you to stay hard long enough for FS. (These tricks work best before you go limp so I need to know if you have problems BEFORE we get to that stage.)
If you plan on holding off an ejaculation as long as possible, can't cum, won't cum or are taking viagara, etc. please find someone else to go and visit. Giving somebody a bj until my jaw is sore, my neck is sore, my back is sore and my hand and arm are so sore that I wish they would just fall off to end the pain might be extremely fun for you but it is hell on me and I would prefer that you see somebody else. If you do this to a provider, it is not going to put her in a good mood for the rest of the session - if you get my drift.
I love sex as much as the next girl but 20 minutes of straight sex where the guy will not cum is not fun either. I only do this part-time and I don't see many clients so I don't build up the "tolerance" for prolonged sex that the full time ladies do. Please keep that in mind.
I also love DATY just as much as the next girl but I can only cum once during a session. Please do not think that you are going to be the sexpert that shows me the joys of multiple oral orgasms. You know how after you cum during a bj, your penis gets tender and sore and you don't want it touched? Well once I have an orgasm with DATY, I get tender and sore. Some of you keep trying to go on and on and on even after I indicate to you to stop or outright tell you to stop. I don't understand why some of you can't understand that the same things that make you sore, make us sore. Sex right after DATY is great but please no more rubbing my poor little clit after an orgasm, it just hurts too much. If you want to wait 20 minutes and go for DATY again, that would be great but there is such a thing as too much of a great thing.
Above all, relax and have fun, talk to me about what you want, be willing to establish a rapport with me and let's have a fun, enjoyable adventure together!
*******
This next bit is part of a post I made on a board in response to a guy that was complaining that he's seen three very well reviewed ladies, (board favorites,) and he didn't have good experiences with them and he didn't know why. I was going to put this in a FAQ all by itself but it actually fits in here quite nicely so here it is:
Why don't you try contacting those ladies that you had sessions with that didn't go well and tell them that you are trying to find out why your session with them didn't go well and ask them to be brutally honest about it.
There are so many things that affect sessions. You are not dealing with blow up dolls here or robots and neither are we. This is very much a "your mileage may vary" type of situation. Just because a lady has good reviews with others does not mean that you will always have a good session with her. And just because a guy does lots of good reviews on the boards, doesn't mean that he will be a good customer with us either.
I do not know you. I do not know anything about you but let me give you some ideas of what things can turn a session bad or at least uncomfortable.
Maybe there is something about you or that you are doing that you are not aware of that is making the sessions go wrong. Are you extremely nervous and uptight? If you can't relax and start a rapport with the lady, things won't go as well as hoped.
Are you too aggressive/rough and you are hurting her or scaring her?
Do you keep asking or pushing for things that are not on her menu?
Are you not aware going into the session what the donation is and what she will and will not do? When somebody shows up for a session and doesn't know how much I charge or what is on the menu or keeps asking for things that I don't provide, it really makes me nervous and uncomfortable. These are things that you should make sure that you know before you show up for your appointment.
Is there something physical about you that may make her uncomfortable: your weight, physical fitness level, scars, psoriasis, physical abilities, deformitites, etc.
Are you on medication such as Viagra or do you have problems ejaculating or getting hard or staying hard? Those guys that can't cum or won't cum or hold off cumming for a long time are a problem and we can get frustrated when we get a guy like this. For guys that can't get hard or can't stay hard, we feel bad for you.
Are you seeing ladies in your own age range? (Within 10 years either side of your age?) Hiring someone much younger or older than you are can be awkward and uncomfortable for us.
Do you have the habit of resting your weight on her so that she has trouble breathing? That is really scary and something that most men do and aren't aware that it causes problems.
Are you extremely tall and those ladies were very short? (Or vice versa.) Extreme height differences can sometimes be difficult to overcome.
Are you hiring smoking hot babes? Sometimes you get better sessions from those ladies that aren't perfect 10's because they haven't already seen 50 guys that week and aren't suffering from hooker burnout.
You say you shower before every session but are you properly cleaning yourself? How long since your last shower? Are you a smoker and you haven't brushed your teeth before the session or do you have stale coffee breath?
Did you look at yourself in a mirror before you went in and combed your hair and made sure that you look presentable? Did you shave that morning? Is your beard and mustache neatly trimmed if you have them? I can't overstate the importance of good grooming. Are your clothes clean? Ragged cut-off shorts or showing up in big ole' dirty workboots, sweats and t-shirt don't make for good first impressions. Prepare yourself for a session the same way you would if you were going out on a date with somebody.
Did you pay her before the session started so that she isn't worried during the session that you won't pay afterwards?
Are you going into the session tired from a long day/week of work, smelling like booze because you just had a drink or two before you came over or are still suffering the effects of a late night or from drinking too much the night before?
Are you going into the session with a bad attitude expecting the session to not go well because of past experiences?
Whew. I just looked over what I just typed and rereading all of that, it seems pretty amazing that any sessions go well lol. But seriously. There are many things that can derail a session but 99.99% of the time if you go into a session with a good attitude, if you are well-groomed, clean, respectful, if you relax and are willing to joke around and have some fun, chat a bit at first, get to know her as a person instead something to use as a "sperm receptical" and you will have a great time.
Let me know if this helps you out and I'm curious what the rest of you guys think as well.
Hugs & kisses!Sassy and Classy Carole 
*******
