These are all common sense kinds of things and they should automatically be followed but from personal experience, I find that I need to point these things out to some of you.

If you do have a lady's phone number or in-call address, please remember that it is a priviledge that we have given this information out to you. Just because you have passed our screening process and we have agreed to see you, does not mean that you have been given the right to pass this information around either on public boards, by PM or by e-mail. Direct other guys to one of her ads and then she can decide who gets this private and priviledged information. Not all SPs are willing to see just anyone and everyone. Please respect this. Don't pass her number around without her permission unless she posts it in her ads.

For those of you that post on review boards which hotels some of the SPs do their in-calls at, you have just told LE where to set up their next sting at haven't you??? Think about it.

If you do have a lady's phone number, don't abuse it.

Don't call too late unless she advertises that she is available 24/7. Your definition and my definition of "too late at night" might be very different, think of it this way, if you wouldn't call an aqaintance's house at that hour, then don't call me that late either.

If you call an SP and she answers the phone and tells you that you have the wrong number and you know it is her, don't be an idiot and immediately call back. Obviously she can't talk to you right now and you need to call back another time.

If you have been to see a lady before, and have her in-call address, don't show up unannounced. That is extremely rude and what does she say if she has guests when you unexpectedly appear on her doorstep? How many times do guys have to unexpectedly show up on a lady's doorstep while her family is there asking for "Amy" (or whatever name she is using,) before somebody in the family gets suspicious and uncovers her secret?

If you call an SP and you get her voicemail, please leave a message or hang up before the voicemail starts recording. If you are calling her cellphone, you are wasting her cellphone minutes by letting the voicemail kick in and start recording if you won't be leaving a message. At least if you leave a message, she knows who has been trying to get a hold of her even if you don't want her to call you back. I can't tell you how many times, I'll get 10-20 calls a day from the same guy that calls, gets the VM and let's it kick in and then hangs up without leaving a message. Even if you don't want me to call you back, please be polite enough to leave a mesage. It not only wastes my time checking all of these blank messages but if you are doing that to somebody's cell phone, you are wasting their time and their money by having to check these blank messages. Use some common sense and some courtesy please!

If I share some personal information with you during a session in an effort to put you at ease and to establish a rapport with you, please don't go around posting that info in a review, on a review board or mention it while talking to another pooner or SP. I get lots of guys telling me what other SPs talked to them about and I am just appalled. I have been told where other SPs live, what they do with their money, that they are going to UofC, what they are taking at school, etc., it's just shocking and I wonder what these same guys are going around telling other people that I have told them in confidence. I won't be going around telling people that "joe schmoe" told me that he's having marital problems or what he does for a living, etc. so please don't go around saying that "Carole told me that...." I will respect your privacy so please respect mine!

Your session can be aversely affected by many factors. The major factors are your attitude, how you treat me and your hygiene. If my comfort level means nothing to you, if you are too rough, if you are acting strangely and making me nervous about what your motives really are or your hygiene is less than impeccable, don't expect to get the greatest session from an SP. I may have a great 2 hr. session with you and I may have to cut short my next session because the next guy is too rough. Your attitude makes a major difference on how well a session goes.  I want to enjoy myself too you know.

If you use my bathroom to do "your business" please wash your hands with soap afterwards! Another tip, peeing with the bathroom door open is pretty gross, I have a private washroom not a public men's urinal. Please behave accordingly.